Argh, Shawn pisses me off, yet again.

I added a nice flower picture to distract from the swear words. :blushing:
We bought this house. It was ultimately left up to me, because Shawn doesn't work out our bills.

I made decisions based on misinformation that the doofus (AKA Shawn) gave me.

He needed to quit his one job so he could empty his 401 K. That way, we didn't have to pay it back. The would reinstate him later, the following week. So he says, ok, I am going to borrow money from my mom and I will tell her that we will pay her back when the dispersement comes.

Two minutes later, he comes back and says, well my mom is going to lend us half the money, and I am going to take a loan out of my 401k to get the other half. Great, so now we have two more bills.

Why doesn't he ever do what we decide. He didn't want to give up that 401K... he would rather put us in a spot, so that for the next 6 months, things are so tight we can barely breathe.

I really feel like killing him right now.

To make things worse, he stopped working his day job, and started doing it at home instead. He told me before hand, that it was going to cost us a "slight" pay cut. Well, the pay cut was anything but slight. It was $200 a week. When you only make $400 a week, that is a problem. To help defray those costs, he says that he will start working more hours at his night job... I mean he is only gone 20 hours now at his night job, and working from home, takes him about 45 minutes a day total to do.

So he tells me, he increased his hours, and now he is going to be working 28 hours instead of 20.

I must be stupid.

So he tells him mom that we can't pay back the loan that he took out from her without my agreement, as fast as she would like because... well... we got the new mini van... (that increased our bills by $100 a month) and didn't mention that he took a $800 a month pay cut so he could sleep in until noon every day.

He needs to be hit with a fucking clue bat.

I leave him so little responsiblity and he can't even get it right.

I am so mad.

I will get over it.

Pray for another daycare kid... that would solve the problem...